The most effective way to move through relationship issues is for each of us to take responsibility for our part. We all have preferences and believe that our opinions are right and true and good. While it’s important to acknowledge our feelings and set boundaries that honor them, it’s also important to realize that it’s our attachment to our point of view that causes the problem. Realizing that the rub lies in the intersection of our differing positions can help us try to shift just enough to see from their vantage point while holding on lightly…
To our own.