What feels great to one person may be unpleasant for another. Nothing is truly objective. We can only define something in relation to a particular perspective. Your idea of good and bad, restrained and excessive may be entirely irrelevant from another’s point of view. We each forge our own path through life with our own environmental and physical advantages and disadvantages. We’ve each experienced different feedback and consequences along the way. Since our judgments are rarely objective, relevant or kind, the most intelligent course of action, that best serves ourselves and our relationships with others, is to…
Drop them.
