When we’re completely exasperated and fed up, expressing hostility toward the perceived culprit of our problem doesn’t pay. It’s possible we may not have all the facts and they may be as innocent as we are. When we communicate our anger to others and blame them for our dissatisfaction, the accusation will make it difficult for them to have sympathy for our feelings. Getting angry and lashing out turns us into victims and takes away our power. A better option is to avoid blame, enlist their help in the dilemma and try to…
Solve it together.
