When we encounter the unexpected and unwanted, it’s wise to take a moment to feel our emotional reaction. Once we’ve fully felt those feelings, we can investigate the situation with curiosity and look for how the new situation may actually be beneficial. It’s unusual to be able to perceive the big picture when these unexpected developments are jolting, but trusting that things will work out well in the end and keeping an attentive eye for pleasant surprises almost always results in us being able to…

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