When we’re stuck in ego-identification mode, we can find ourselves trying to impress others by regaling them with stories of our successes, talents or accomplishments. These are the perfect instances to pause and examine our motives. If we’re seeking admiration, bragging is unlikely to create the response we want. Pulling for approval rarely goes unnoticed and often elicits the opposite reaction. Connecting with others to find out what energizes, stimulates and motivates them by asking them about themselves is far more effective and…

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