If you find yourself in a relationship, job or other circumstance that doesn’t feel good or bring out the best in you and you don’t know how to improve it or get yourself out, there’s a solution. After recognizing that you’re the one who got yourself into the situation, you may have to acknowledge that your strategies and mindset might not help you exit it. Trust in your Deeper Self, Life, the Universe, God (whatever feels comfortable to you) and surrender to it. Admit that you don’t know what to do and simply ask for help. Then… 

Wait for guidance.