How do we learn to let go of the need to be right or win the argument? By realizing that the part of us that feels threatened is our egoic identity. It’s not who we really are. We’re so much bigger than the personality and image we project. Softening by easing our position doesn’t make us weaker, it makes us more real and therefore stronger. Even though it requires a gargantuan effort to uphold our stories, it’s scary when they’re threatened. But facing that fear and dropping them is key to…

Relationship harmony.

Stay tuned for part 3 tomorrow.

Jarl and Steve