Identifying as a victim never benefits us. While it may be true that something bad happened, it’s only a part of the equation. Focusing on the unfortunate part and who’s to blame fuels the fire of discontent and keeps us stuck. The unwanted event happened once, but we victimize ourselves every time we think about or tell the story to others. Fortunately, as conscious beings, we have the ability to focus our attention on whatever empowers us and helps us grow. Taking responsibility for our part, raises our consciousness, heals our past and…

Lightens our load.

Jarl and Steve