Relationships provide rich grist for personal growth. Every difference of opinion gives you another opportunity to evolve. Each difficulty is a chance to look at your own conditioning to investigate why you’re getting stuck, what you’d like to be different and consider how you can make that happen by changing your own behavior and outlook. Do you need better boundaries? Are you overly critical? Are you controlling or feeling controlled? Are you stuck in the past? Taking an honest look at yourself and communicating kindly leads to deeper self-love, personal growth and a…
Better relationship.
Jarl and Steve
Every gem of your wisdom you pour each day I try to integrate to my system..but on the process there will be some knots and unevenness.that comes as a question and I chose to ask to you for guidance..with the hope that you may be willing to pour some light upon us..hope these questions wouldn’t be disturbing your motives and tasks of the moments..with the hope that you may ask these in high spirits…
Love
Difference of opinion is a chance for introspection.difficulties do the same.a moment of deeper introspection.
Looking at my conditioning and I may ask
1)this behavior is not me and this is a learned one.so there is a possibility of getting it unlearned by relearning a new one
2)why am I getting stuck?
3)what difference I need here?
4)how can I make that happen by working upon my behavious and outlook
5)do I need better boundaries
6)am I overly critical
7)am I controlling or am I being controlled
8)am I stuck in the past
9)look deeply by asking deeper questions
..awesome man.thank you
But as long as we are identified with our behaviors and attached with our perspectives would there be acres introspection be happening.?once this feedback program is written in our software there will be an awesome world..but this identification is restricting a Hindu from considering a Muslim as his blood,a failure to be transformed to a lesson,a conflict from getting even out..how will w integrate this feedback mechanism to our software..
Love
Sarath