Practically everything you do is designed to help you get attention. From the things you talk about to the skills and talents you develop, your expression is intended to make an impression. Recognizing the truth of this universal desire helps you to understand that one of the kindest things you can do is offer others the gift of your attention. Your focused awareness is deeply nurturing to them and works out well for you, too. Your rapt attention, draws theirs to you.
Everyone feels seen.
Steve and Jarl