When you want to change something in your relationships or out in the world, do it with love and understanding. Since the observed (the problem) is affected by the observer (you), remember that your viewpoint itself influences the equation and is, by definition, part of the problem. Any attempt to change something through blame and shame adds toxic energy that pollutes your vibration and causes others to resist. If you want to be an effective change agent…

Begin with yourself. 

Steve and Jarl