If someone’s behavior activates anger or frustration in you, you’re entitled to your feelings. But you’re not entitled to act out on them. Your feelings aren’t caused by their behavior, but rather your spin and intolerance of it. Deep down, you’re often mad at yourself for failing to communicate clearly and set appropriate boundaries. These are often the reasons you find yourself in these situations in the first place. When you own your part in it, you won’t project blame out on others. Imagine a world where everyone takes responsibility for their own feelings…
Kinder and saner.
Steve and Jarl
