Do you ever take pleasure in talking with your friends about your mate’s shortcomings or to your mate about your friend’s irritating ways? It’s a common practice that seems harmless. But it’s not. Complaining sends the message to your subconscious mind that you’re powerless and an ineffective communicator. Next time you catch yourself engaging in this destructive activity, stop it! Instead, turn the conversation into an inquiry about how you might lovingly handle your feelings of frustration. It’s not only more productive and better for your self-esteem…
Others will feel they can trust you more.
Steve and Jarl
