Grief, pain, hardship and sickness are part of life. The way you choose to deal with what life brings is really what determines your experience of it. You can develop a compelling story, elicit some juicy sympathy, even create an entire identity around your grist. Or you can acknowledge your feelings, truly feel them without adding story and then let them go. The stories aren’t who you are. The sooner you drop them…
The better.
Merci