When you’re bumping heads with someone and you don’t want to relax your stance because you know you’re right, ask yourself if you’d rather be right or happy. If you know you’re right, be satisfied with that. Rigid righteousness isn’t good for anyone. Offer your point of view, take in what the other person is saying and, if you feel your wall come up, try to just drop it and smile.

It’s disarming.

Merci